In recent years, my friends have scattered themselves across the globe. I have my Ree on the Westside (along with several other nameless fools), ABA in Hawaii, Mrs. Red in Pullman (represent!), Mac and Kev holding it down in the Tri, while the boys have posted up in various time zones: Mountain, Central, Eastern, and whatever zone Seoul’s in…
Pretty much we’re all over the place. Me less than others, as I’m practically chained to the Tri… but whatever. These days there are only a few things that bring us together- deaths, weddings, and Jesus.
Thankfully this last reunion was credited to Jesus, and not the former (though weddings have been known to happen, even to us). So, uh, Jesus… thanks man, for being born and whatnot. You did all of us a solid, for serious.
Since there was a handful of us in the Tri for Christmas and beyond, I was a bit excited for New Years. A ‘bit’ might be an understatement. I was dancing instead of walking, singing instead of talking, and barely able to sleep my full 9.5 hours a night. The possibilities were endless! We could go to a concert, a bar (but not for midnight, no, definitely not for midnight… that would be sad), we could have dinner, or a party... Who would be here? Would we dress up? Can I make sangria? Did I need to get a new outfit? Will I have enough pictures to make an entire Facebook album? . . .WILL THERE BE SEQUINS?!?!
As you may have guessed, I tend to get carried away with just about anything. I'm a very excitable person. Lately I've been trying to keep my insanely unreasonable hopes in check, because looking back, high expectations have led me to nothing but a world of disappointment- for instance:
-Did I get a car when I turned 16? No.
-Have I ever stumbled upon the fact that I’m actually royalty? Not in so many words…
-Have I published any brilliant novels or sold any screenplays? Negative.
-Did my parents ever get me one of those Barbie birthday cakes, where her ball gown is in fact made out of cake? No, though I believe I once had a mud-pie.
-Have I won the lottery... or a sweepstakes... or a radio call in contest? No, no I have not. (I’m not being completely fair… I once received the grand prize for a delightfully rendered coloring of a scarecrow, circa 1995…)
-Does my hair EVER do what I want it to? Never. Never, ever, ever.
This constant disappointment was starting to get depressing until I figured out the reason. It's not that I'm inadequate (entirely...). It's that I expect too much. I’m delusional when it comes to my own aptitude, ability, and the laws of physics in general. Some things are just not possible. I’d say impossible but people are really touchy about that word. Cool it, folks, it’s not like I dropped the ‘moist’ bomb. Ugh. I don’t even like typing it.
Well, okay, anyways… I’ve started to readjust my expectations, beginning with the ones I have about other people. I can't control my friends, or their actions, or their plans (or the weather…) on New Year's Eve... so I spent a few moments talking myself down from sending out engraved invitations to a party that might never happen.
By 8 PM, 12/31/10, Maci’s snack trays were nestled atop the counter, vodka was added to the Sangria and I’d finally settled into my third outfit of the night. Kev and Scott flitted about the apartment, eating and drinking as Maci walked into the living room. “When are our friends supposed to get here?”
“30 minutes ago…” Kev and I said. We do this a lot, the ‘speaking in unison’ thing. It’s creepy and endearing all at the same…
Maci nodded, walking back to her room as the front door popped open to reveal ABA and a handful of Monkey Bread, John, complete with crockpot, and Jevon, empty handed. Naturally.
You know, come to think of it, I think he had a chain of pain around his neck. Oh, wait… all of them did. When questioned, they mumbled something about ‘tradition’ and ‘Goldschlager’ and ‘drunkenness’- though their explanations fell upon deaf ears as by then I was much too excited to do anything other than imbibe. My friends showed up! It was New Years! The party had started!!!
What? Oh, you’re sitting there thinking, “Ehem, excuse me, Liz… I’ve reread that past little bit, counted twice and, to be honest, seven people does not a fun party make…” (and it was at least 7.5 people, because Paul was there for like, 20 minutes)
Well, I don’t know what to tell you, because it’s obvious you haven’t tooled around with my friends with picnic baskets and limos and liquor and cardio... and freezing temperatures with no coat... It was super fun. I’ll show you. Here’s what happened…
After an hour or two of stocking photos with extras (you know, limbs and bottles and whatnot to make the party seem a bit more legit), 3 chains of pain and a bit too much sangria, we decided we needed to get the fuck out of dodge. Once we determined that no one could drive us to our ultimate destination (a party with more than 7 people), we decided to get a cab.
Or, not.
“Hi, right,” Jevon said into his phone, eyes closed and speakerphone detonated, “do you have any limos available for tonight?” Since Jevon’s move to DFW, he’s become a bit… classier. His progress has been slow, as he is the same boy who would bring his McDonalds to Red Robin, unwrapping his double cheeseburgers whilst we were in the midst of our clucks and fries… but still, he’s maturing. Especially when it comes to his choice of transportation.
“He says he can take us for 40 minutes…” We looked at each other, pondering the thought. “For $100.”
The crowd (or rather, the other 6) threw up their hands in protest. “40 minutes for 100 bucks!? No way! What a rip off!”
Three minutes later we gathered in the kitchen to pool our resources. “I’ve got $40,” I held out two crisp 20s I’d earmarked for drinks aplenty, watching as Jevon opened his billfold. “You’ve got to be fucking kidding me.”
He shrugged, handing over the contents of his wallet. Six-dollar bills. “It’s all I have.”
I hate that guy.
Once in the limo, we snapped photos like it was our job, or rather, like we just acquired a Nikon and suddenly became ‘photographers’. Check out the shots on my new blog liztakespictures.blogspot.com …. No. I’m kidding. I’m just one of those bitter people with a blog who thinks I’m a writer… pshaw. I know. Sooo lame.
So yeah, we’re in the limo, and I’m making these awkward facial expressions that seemed cute at the time but now, looking back, were less cute and more… drunk. John rummaged around the picnic basket (yeah we brought one) for something to prop my camera up on the backseat for a few group photos of the night. They were entirely ugly so I will not be posting them here. After what seemed like mere minutes (because it was), we pulled up to the party, hopped out of the limo and badgered the driver to take one more picture. This time, though, with the cameras on our phones.
“I can’t really see if I’m taking it…” he said, shrugging as he handed ABA her otterboxed phone. She got it a few days prior and decided to invest in a protective, yet stylish, waterproof/smashproof/A-Big-Ashproof shell. It was hot pink and precious, and she had yet to drop it- an impressing feat.
“We still need you to drive us home,” I told him, “about how much time are we allotted?” (Yes, unfortunately I really do talk like that…)
“Eh, 6 minutes,” he answered, “what with the traffic.”
Traffic? This is the Tri. There’s only traffic if you’re within a 20-foot radius of a brand new chain restaurant, and last I checked, Bob’s Burgers and Brews was in an entirely different zip code.
“I’ll set a timer!” Maci offered, following the boys to the party. We wandered the parking lot(s), confused as to where, exactly, we were? After seeing a familiar number and figuring, “Oh hell, this must be it,” we walked into a generic condo and prepared ourselves to be dazzled.
There were HEY’s and HI’s, and other exchanges of handshakes and hugs, though I merely smiled, my eyes darting about the premises. You see, I have a bit of a problem... I don’t really like to be the first to acknowledge another’s existence. I like to ignore people until they come to me. Sometimes I ignore them even after they say hello, or even when they yell my name and wave- even if I live with them.
I don’t know what’s wrong with me, because it’s all a ruse. A little game I like to play. I remember everyone. If I've met you, ever, I remember you. I will notice if you've gotten a haircut, too, and if you're wearing the same outfit I saw you in last time. I'll remember your name and what we discussed because I'm like freaking Rain Man when it comes to social contacts.
But I won't compliment your coif, or ask you how your classes or job is going... instead I'll pretend you don't exist in my world. I'll let you say hi to me, and maybe even reintroduce yourself. I'll say, "Oh, yeah... I think I remember that..." or I might even say, "Nice to meet you!"--- but this is all an act. For some reason I have this sick need for people to say 'Hi' to me first. They have to acknowledge me, let me know that they vaguely remember me at all before I'm receptive to their conversation. This is one of my resolutions… to say ‘HI!’ first. Also to stop filling every pause in conversation with an unfortunate tale or anecdote because I’m too afraid of the quiet…
So after a few hello’s were launched in my direction, I mingled, chatted, and then said my goodbyes. Somehow I ended up on the second floor, and by the time I returned to the main level, my peeps (that’s what I like to call them now) were gone. They’d left without me! They were probably already on the interstate, taking more pictures, none of which I’d be in, because I wasn’t there and all…
It was then, seconds later, that I saw A Big Ash, fraternizing with randos in the kitchen. “Ashley, we have to go, it’s been past 6 minutes.” She brushed me off, evidently content with staying at a party with more than 7 people, so I dragged her out of the house, baiting her with the promise of champagne once we got home. We ran to the waiting limo (do you know how long I’ve wanted to use that phrase?!) and jumped inside, just in time for more pictures.
“You guys…” A Big Ash said, looking into her purse. “I think I have Beth’s phone.”
She held up her hot pink otterboxed iPhone, the one she just got, and I shook my head. “No you don’t.”
“Yeah huh.”
“Ashley that’s your phone. You just got it. Remember? You bought it.”
“No this is, I think this is Beth’s phone. This is hers.”
I rolled my eyes. “It’s your phone.”
“But then why is Beth on it?” She held it up, Beth’s picture shining brightly. I grabbed at it, sort of thinking that ABA might have just snapped a photo of Beth and saved it as her background… it seemed like something she’d do… until she pulled another phone from her purse, identical to the one in my hand. “Yeah.” She nodded her head. “That’s Beth’s phone.”
Sweet Jesus. We yelled for the driver to stop (“Stop the limo!” – being another thing I’ve always wanted to sneak into regular conversation) so that Maci could hop out and deliver the phone to its actual owner. We would have sent ABA to right herself, but she would have been distracted by, I don’t know, breathing?, and we would have had to walk home.
30 pictures later we arrived at Bonefish Grill, the parking lot nearly empty. I saw one of my coworkers on the way in (who was, by the way, delighted that she knew someone getting out of a stretch Hummer limo…) but one trip round the circular doors and we were on our way out again.
“I can’t find my wallet.” Maci said, digging through the picnic basket that Jevon had already hidden in the bushes for the duration of our Bonefish stay only to have to uncover it once the wallet was out on Amber Alert.
“I think I used it to prop up the camera for the group pictures…” John said, shrugging. “We’ll just call him and he’ll come right back.” Maci glared, still digging through the pic-a-nic basket. I could see it in her eyes... "Hobo's are not for propping..."
I probably laughed or something, and went inside to huddle by the hostess station. Four different people asked if we needed anything, but I’m sure by then we looked far beyond help. The limo reappeared, with Maci’s wallet, and when ABA returned from chatting with the driver, a dejected look upon her face, I knew what was happening.
“We have to walk home, don’t we?”
Oh how the mighty have fallen… Riding high in the limo for all of 40 minutes, thinking we were something special… This must’ve been how MC Hammer felt...
Halfway home and paused on Gage to take a few pulls of whatever we had left in the picnic basket (Malbec and whipped cream vodka…), Jevon smiled. “Can you believe it was 11 years ago that Journey’s released their Millenium sticker?”
“Wow,” I nodded, the depth of his comment washing over me. Not. “I can’t believe that. Crazy.”
“Right?”
By the time we got home, everybody was already lounging about, waiting for the year to change. We forgot about the champagne and Goldschlager, mostly because ABA had passed out and neglected to remind us, and were instead content to shout 10-9-8… etc, cheering as we made it to 2011.
I didn’t have high hopes for the evening, in fact I tried really hard not to have any hopes… but I ended up being ‘dazzled’ just the same. My friends came through, like they always have, and I capped off one more year hanging out with the people that I love (or, tolerate). Plus, this time, we rang out the New Year in style. Did I mention we had a limo!?
Happy (late) New Year everybody.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Saturday, November 13, 2010
santa maria. pinta. niña... titanic.
Usually I'm not thankful for anything. I'm pretty sure everything I receive is either well-deserved, completely warranted, or just figures.
But, it is Thanksgiving. Or near it, sort of. Even I, on the holiest of all holidays centered around over-eating, swallow my pride and bitterness to give thanks to those who've earned it.
To start off, I'd like to express my thankfulness for blankets. They are cozy, and warm, and they smell nice. I love blankets. I wish I could wear one at work... but alas, I work outside the home, and people would think me strange should I show up in the tasting room with a down comforter draped across my shoulders. One of my great regrets...
Thank you, world, for Washington state. I don't have much to compare it to, seeing as though I've lived in it my entire life (oh God, how lame?!), but it's beyond dece. It has lakes, rivers and oceans, cities and small towns, rain forests, regular forests, deserts and mountains, and Pullman. It is spectacular. And it's shaped cool, not like one of those Dakotas or Tennessee. W (clap, clap, clap) A (clap, clap, clap) S (clap) H (clap) I (clap, clap, clap).... ugh, you get the idea. Jebus, you know, that's a lot of claps. Well, I suppose it is the anthem of a college town... Ha.
What else, what else. Ahhh, DVR, how I love you so. Thank you for letting me watch my shows without having to sit through all those dumb ass Roni Deutch ads. When the day comes that I move into Megan's and have to give up the fast forward feature... I'm sure I'll die a little bit inside. Damn. DAMN!
Hmmm... Oh, thank you Mark Zuckerberg, for selling out majorly and making Facebook available to my GRANDMOTHER. Do you know how bad I feel denying my Grandma's friend request? I just let it sit there, along with my mother's and various aunts and uncles, leering at me. They leer. Let us be your friend, Elizabeth, they say. And let my debauched haven become some unfortunate version of familial show and tell? Fat chance! "And here, Grandma, is a photo of my 3rd beer bong of the night."
I'm not the same person to you all as I am to my Grandma. To her I'm somewhat intelligent, sincere, and an all-around decent human being. She calls me, "Lovey Dovey", for Christ's sake. It was bad enough senior year when I was crowned Prom princess (less 'crowned' and more 'lost-but-still-given-a-tiara-and-title-by-default') and had to explain to her why people were yelling "BOOZE!" at me on stage, and what it meant, exactly, when they asked me about a Dairy Queen spoon... Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaking of Facebook, thanks to whomever decided it was okay to say whatever the hell you want on your status updates. It's almost always some crazy girl bitching about the idiots who wade in her cesspool of dating. "So-and-so thinks guyz r the BIGGEST PEICES OF SHIT EVERR. All guys. All of them. Especialy u, Fred. I hate u. U RUINED MY LIFE. N u stole my car! N I kno it was u callin all those hookers n shit... I pay for ur phone! I hate all men. There scum! But not u, Daddy. I luv u." ... Ugh. These typo-riddled rants are usually followed by a slew of commenting supporters, their grammatical prowess paralleled in the original post. If we're really lucky, it's the guy in question answering back. "Bitch u don't know me!" Also, how hard is it to spell out the word 'you'? Really, people.
It's my personal belief that any guy who would date a girl with no observable social awareness deserves to be mistreated in cyberspace. And any girl who's so pathetic as to use Facebook to alleviate the stress of dating such a nutbag deserves him as well. Get a life. Or don't, because I seriously love reading how psychotic you are. ...Hmm. Maybe I'm the one who needs a life. (in the crazy girls' defense, it's been my experience that we don't start out that way... it's you boys who drive us to the edge of our sanity...)
While we're on the subject of people who make me feel better about myself--- a big thanks goes to reality TV and just about everyone in it, because without you all as such sparkling examples of humanity, I'd feel like a real ass most of the time. Thanks for keeping me in check and showing me how truly normal I am.
Thanks 12-year molars, for finally gracing me with your presence. You've been 11 years in the making. Wisdom teeth? I have none. Say what you will.
Thank you, thank you, Steve Jobs, for creating a whole heap of shiny, expensive products that I don't really need, and never really thought I wanted, until I saw you explaining their gloriousness in a keynote.
Thanks Bank of America, for sending me a Cougar debit card. It brightens my day every time I make a purchase. It's especially exciting when I get 20% cash back on Cougar gear, like red solo cups, ping pong balls, and Busch Light.
Ooo, I should also thank Wikipedia, for giving me endless (if not false) information at my fingertips. Though I won't be completely appreciative until I have my own Wikipedia entry, declaring me the smartest, funniest, and perhaps the best person in the world.
I'd like to give a shout out to Christian Louboutin for making such lust-worthy, completely amazing high heels. Oh, and Christian, while I've got you here, I would like to un-thank you for pricing them at $800 a pair. It's a bit steep for someone who majored in English, if you know what I mean...
Also, while I'm un-thanking people, I'd like to un-thank God for making me 5'11". I want to wear Louboutins at my wedding, God, but you've made this nearly impossible. Do you know how hard it is to find an intelligent, rich, gorgeous guy who's 6'5", who happens to be spectacularly witty and interesting and perhaps foreign, who also wants to put up with me for as long as we both shall live? Of course you know how hard it is... you only made one of them. And for some reason, he's not returning my calls (I'm talking to you, Alexander Skarsgard... Marry me.) But, jokes on you, God. My knees are double-jointed, so I'll just stand kind of weird and settle for 6'2". HaHA!
Muchas gracias, tequila, for being AWESOME. I love you. Probably a little too much.
Thank you, texting. Now I barely have to talk to anyone, and it's fabulous. Sans the occasional typo that misconstrues an entire message, you are great. You're concise, timely, and sort of discreet- except today when I literally walked into a Hanukkah display at Target whilst texting Justin a picture of a menorah. That was not discreet. It would've seemed hate crime-ish, had I not immediately stooped to stow the white and blue candles back on their shelf... Sorry, Moses.
I guess I should thank all whom I consider my friend. I seriously have no idea why most of you have stuck around. I think it's that by now, I know too much about you, and at our age it's hard to break in new friends, and even harder to find ones that will be accepting of the annoying qualities we all seem to possess. Love you guys.
And last, but certainly not least, thanks Mom and Dad... I thank you for a lot of things, but mostly for not putting me up for adoption once you realized how strange I actually am :)
Happy Thanksgiving, everybody!
Tequila shots Wednesday night? I'll text you.
But, it is Thanksgiving. Or near it, sort of. Even I, on the holiest of all holidays centered around over-eating, swallow my pride and bitterness to give thanks to those who've earned it.
To start off, I'd like to express my thankfulness for blankets. They are cozy, and warm, and they smell nice. I love blankets. I wish I could wear one at work... but alas, I work outside the home, and people would think me strange should I show up in the tasting room with a down comforter draped across my shoulders. One of my great regrets...
Thank you, world, for Washington state. I don't have much to compare it to, seeing as though I've lived in it my entire life (oh God, how lame?!), but it's beyond dece. It has lakes, rivers and oceans, cities and small towns, rain forests, regular forests, deserts and mountains, and Pullman. It is spectacular. And it's shaped cool, not like one of those Dakotas or Tennessee. W (clap, clap, clap) A (clap, clap, clap) S (clap) H (clap) I (clap, clap, clap).... ugh, you get the idea. Jebus, you know, that's a lot of claps. Well, I suppose it is the anthem of a college town... Ha.
What else, what else. Ahhh, DVR, how I love you so. Thank you for letting me watch my shows without having to sit through all those dumb ass Roni Deutch ads. When the day comes that I move into Megan's and have to give up the fast forward feature... I'm sure I'll die a little bit inside. Damn. DAMN!
Hmmm... Oh, thank you Mark Zuckerberg, for selling out majorly and making Facebook available to my GRANDMOTHER. Do you know how bad I feel denying my Grandma's friend request? I just let it sit there, along with my mother's and various aunts and uncles, leering at me. They leer. Let us be your friend, Elizabeth, they say. And let my debauched haven become some unfortunate version of familial show and tell? Fat chance! "And here, Grandma, is a photo of my 3rd beer bong of the night."
I'm not the same person to you all as I am to my Grandma. To her I'm somewhat intelligent, sincere, and an all-around decent human being. She calls me, "Lovey Dovey", for Christ's sake. It was bad enough senior year when I was crowned Prom princess (less 'crowned' and more 'lost-but-still-given-a-tiara-and-title-by-default') and had to explain to her why people were yelling "BOOZE!" at me on stage, and what it meant, exactly, when they asked me about a Dairy Queen spoon... Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaking of Facebook, thanks to whomever decided it was okay to say whatever the hell you want on your status updates. It's almost always some crazy girl bitching about the idiots who wade in her cesspool of dating. "So-and-so thinks guyz r the BIGGEST PEICES OF SHIT EVERR. All guys. All of them. Especialy u, Fred. I hate u. U RUINED MY LIFE. N u stole my car! N I kno it was u callin all those hookers n shit... I pay for ur phone! I hate all men. There scum! But not u, Daddy. I luv u." ... Ugh. These typo-riddled rants are usually followed by a slew of commenting supporters, their grammatical prowess paralleled in the original post. If we're really lucky, it's the guy in question answering back. "Bitch u don't know me!" Also, how hard is it to spell out the word 'you'? Really, people.
It's my personal belief that any guy who would date a girl with no observable social awareness deserves to be mistreated in cyberspace. And any girl who's so pathetic as to use Facebook to alleviate the stress of dating such a nutbag deserves him as well. Get a life. Or don't, because I seriously love reading how psychotic you are. ...Hmm. Maybe I'm the one who needs a life. (in the crazy girls' defense, it's been my experience that we don't start out that way... it's you boys who drive us to the edge of our sanity...)
While we're on the subject of people who make me feel better about myself--- a big thanks goes to reality TV and just about everyone in it, because without you all as such sparkling examples of humanity, I'd feel like a real ass most of the time. Thanks for keeping me in check and showing me how truly normal I am.
Thanks 12-year molars, for finally gracing me with your presence. You've been 11 years in the making. Wisdom teeth? I have none. Say what you will.
Thank you, thank you, Steve Jobs, for creating a whole heap of shiny, expensive products that I don't really need, and never really thought I wanted, until I saw you explaining their gloriousness in a keynote.
Thanks Bank of America, for sending me a Cougar debit card. It brightens my day every time I make a purchase. It's especially exciting when I get 20% cash back on Cougar gear, like red solo cups, ping pong balls, and Busch Light.
Ooo, I should also thank Wikipedia, for giving me endless (if not false) information at my fingertips. Though I won't be completely appreciative until I have my own Wikipedia entry, declaring me the smartest, funniest, and perhaps the best person in the world.
I'd like to give a shout out to Christian Louboutin for making such lust-worthy, completely amazing high heels. Oh, and Christian, while I've got you here, I would like to un-thank you for pricing them at $800 a pair. It's a bit steep for someone who majored in English, if you know what I mean...
Also, while I'm un-thanking people, I'd like to un-thank God for making me 5'11". I want to wear Louboutins at my wedding, God, but you've made this nearly impossible. Do you know how hard it is to find an intelligent, rich, gorgeous guy who's 6'5", who happens to be spectacularly witty and interesting and perhaps foreign, who also wants to put up with me for as long as we both shall live? Of course you know how hard it is... you only made one of them. And for some reason, he's not returning my calls (I'm talking to you, Alexander Skarsgard... Marry me.) But, jokes on you, God. My knees are double-jointed, so I'll just stand kind of weird and settle for 6'2". HaHA!
Muchas gracias, tequila, for being AWESOME. I love you. Probably a little too much.
Thank you, texting. Now I barely have to talk to anyone, and it's fabulous. Sans the occasional typo that misconstrues an entire message, you are great. You're concise, timely, and sort of discreet- except today when I literally walked into a Hanukkah display at Target whilst texting Justin a picture of a menorah. That was not discreet. It would've seemed hate crime-ish, had I not immediately stooped to stow the white and blue candles back on their shelf... Sorry, Moses.
I guess I should thank all whom I consider my friend. I seriously have no idea why most of you have stuck around. I think it's that by now, I know too much about you, and at our age it's hard to break in new friends, and even harder to find ones that will be accepting of the annoying qualities we all seem to possess. Love you guys.
And last, but certainly not least, thanks Mom and Dad... I thank you for a lot of things, but mostly for not putting me up for adoption once you realized how strange I actually am :)
Happy Thanksgiving, everybody!
Tequila shots Wednesday night? I'll text you.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
oh, dear me...
I was shuffling through my iPod the other day when Brad Paisley's Letter to Me came on. I thought to myself, "Why the hell did I ever download this song?" and quickly pushed 'next', only for Baz Luhrman's Everybody's Free (to Wear Sunscreen) to blast into the air around me.
I glanced about, hoping that no one would overhear my awful picks. You see, I tend to listen to my music very loud, ergo anyone within a 30 foot radius can usually decipher the lyrics flowing through my earbuds. I judge people quite harshly by their musical choices, for instance, right now I'm sitting in a parking lot, penning this to the soulful rhythm of Purple Rain. Who in their right mind would diss Purple Rain? ... What, no love for Prince? Hark, what blasphemy! It's a fantastic song, and you know it... But I digress. The fact that I followed a so-so country jam with an even stranger non-song was unforgivable. What next, Nickelback? Hah, just kidding. I'd shoot myself. Seriously.
Anyways, for some reason I kept listening to the Sunscreen song. I've always liked the one line: "Don't worry about the future ... ... The real troubles in your life are apt to be the things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindsides you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday." Kind of morbid, I'll admit, but I love the imagery. I can see myself sitting in my car on an idle Tuesday, the clock striking 4 as a semi careens my way... and suddenly I'm HIT!!#@*&$... with the realization that I should probably be at work, or something.
It didn't take but a moment to understand how serendipitous it was that these two songs played back-to-back. Obviously, Jesus (or Steve Jobs, whatevs) wanted me to blog a little old 'letter to me'.
I decided to write this letter to a 5 year old me, because not only was I a gifted reader with one hell of a vocabulary at that age, but also, I'm pretty sure age 5 is right when I started to fuck everything up. So here we go...
Dear Liz,
First of all, your name is Elizabeth. I know, it's long, and your hasty 8 year old self will want to shorten it to something that can be scribbled in an instant... but you will rue the day (rue, I tell you!) that you choose to go by 'Liz'. It's obnoxious, and too short and it's a bit onomatopoeia-ish. And to be honest, everyone's going to call you Booze, anyway. It's a long story. I'll explain later.
Speaking of days you will 'rue', one blissful 5th grade afternoon, you'll be accosted by a boy named Jevon. He'll be the one throwing water at you. You'll forgive him this, almost immediately- because you'll think him kind of cute. This is all an act- a trick of the light, I say! RUN. Run away from him, and never look back. If you don't cut him out of your life right then and there, he'll torture you for long as you both shall live...
Just to further illustrate how imperative it is to your sanity that you avoid and ignore him, let us take a stroll down memory lane... At age 16, after you see the Texas Chainsaw Massacre with all of your friends, you'll go home, so glad that you're not one of those silly girls who gets scared by silly movies. Cue Jevon, who will be waiting outside your bedroom window, revving a circular saw. He's also the one who dresses as a clown not once, but twice, all for your 'benefit'. You're afraid of clowns, but, by now, you already know this. His shenanigans will only cement your stance. Senior year he'll tell your government teacher that you have a knife in your backpack, which by then will be quite an offense... but you'll be granted clemency due to the fact that his only proof was an AIM account he purported as yours with the moniker 'knifeinmypack', and a hand-drawn picture of a cleaver that he stuffed in your bag. Once you've enrolled at WSU, he'll already have told all his friends (he has, surprisingly, many) that you're a heroin addict (you are not) who's had 9 abortions (of which you've had none)... And one time, he'll push you and you'll trip and go flying into a wall, bounce off a fire extinguisher and land on your ass. He'll laugh at this.
Speaking of which, you're unbalanced. Not in like, a schizo way, but more in the way that you fall down a lot. Realize this, and move on. Don't go rollerblading, snowboarding, skateboarding, or walking down B Street. This will save you a dislocated shoulder, bruised hip, bruised ego, the knees of two different pairs of jeans, a pair of aviator sunglasses, your left ankle and your sanity.
Regardless of your vigilance, you will never use the words 'supper' or 'soda' in normal conversation, and you aren't really ambidextrous. Why must you try to be so strange? The oboe? Really?! Get over yourself, kid. You're going to be weird enough without going out of your way to do so. Also, you pronounce 'crayon' wrong. Seriously. It's not 'cran'- it's 'cray-on'. People will make fun of you for this. And while I'm clearing up some egregious errors in your thought processes and pronunciations, I might as well mention these: islands are not floating pieces of land, hearts aren't shaped like hearts, and the lyrics are, "Don't go chasing waterfalls, please stick to the rivers and the lakes that you used to", not, "Don't go Jason waterfalls, blistex to the rivers and the lakes that you used to"...
Enough with the overalls. After age two, they cease to be precious and turn into pathetic.
Sometime in early grade school (between 1st and 2nd grade, to be sort-of exact), a freckle will appear on your lip. It's not pen, regardless of how many misguided, nosy strangers (and Grandma!) try to tell you to wipe it off your face. Even after you assure them that it's not pen, that it's permanent, they'll still stare at you, an air of doubt in their gaze... Get used to this. It happens once a week.
Lots of girls are impetuous, unreasonable and a bit creepy- and you are one of them even though you consider yourself to be sooooo balanced and normal and cool. You're not. Sorry.
Try to write a book about vampires that's actually good before 2005- because after that they become sparkly, thus making the entire genre worthless. Also, invest in Apple or something. Oh, and Y2K? Total BS. I'll let you know about this 2012 nonsense... or maybe I won't :/
Really, little Elizabeth... how many Beanie Babies does one actually need?
There will be a time in your adolescence that you decide to throw a party at your parent's house. FYI, someone leaves a Smirnoff Ice in the microwave... Your friends are cool. And just so you know... your friend Nick's going to tell your cousin Chris about the party, who's going to tell your aunt Elinor who's going to tell your mom. You don't get into trouble though, so chill out. Have a drink, or eight... you were a real bitch that night.
On that same note... you keep thinking vodka is your friend. IT DOES NOT LIKE YOU.
Relax about the little things, because chances are, they don't really matter anyway. Pay attention in class, and quit scribbling all over your notebooks, you're wasting paper. Be nicer to people because as the years go by you'll feel bad that you weren't.
Unfortunate things will happen. People will disappoint you. And you're going to disappoint yourself, more times than I'd like to admit- but that's kind of what life's about. You try things out, you make mistakes, you (hopefully) learn from them, and you get up and do it all over again. Sooner or later you'll come to the realization that the past is the past, the future may or may not be completely fucked- but life goes on. Just live. Just breathe. Have fun and be sincere and most of all, be present. From what I can tell you'll have good days and bad, but they're two sides of the same coin, you can't have one without the other. And maybe the odds are stacked in your favor, because so far, life's been pretty damn good.
Just do your best, so you can look back with no regrets, proud of what you've accomplished and without all those obnoxious, nagging, "what if" scenarios.
You've got one shot at this.
Be good.
Sincerely,
Booze
I glanced about, hoping that no one would overhear my awful picks. You see, I tend to listen to my music very loud, ergo anyone within a 30 foot radius can usually decipher the lyrics flowing through my earbuds. I judge people quite harshly by their musical choices, for instance, right now I'm sitting in a parking lot, penning this to the soulful rhythm of Purple Rain. Who in their right mind would diss Purple Rain? ... What, no love for Prince? Hark, what blasphemy! It's a fantastic song, and you know it... But I digress. The fact that I followed a so-so country jam with an even stranger non-song was unforgivable. What next, Nickelback? Hah, just kidding. I'd shoot myself. Seriously.
Anyways, for some reason I kept listening to the Sunscreen song. I've always liked the one line: "Don't worry about the future ... ... The real troubles in your life are apt to be the things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindsides you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday." Kind of morbid, I'll admit, but I love the imagery. I can see myself sitting in my car on an idle Tuesday, the clock striking 4 as a semi careens my way... and suddenly I'm HIT!!#@*&$... with the realization that I should probably be at work, or something.
It didn't take but a moment to understand how serendipitous it was that these two songs played back-to-back. Obviously, Jesus (or Steve Jobs, whatevs) wanted me to blog a little old 'letter to me'.
I decided to write this letter to a 5 year old me, because not only was I a gifted reader with one hell of a vocabulary at that age, but also, I'm pretty sure age 5 is right when I started to fuck everything up. So here we go...
Dear Liz,
First of all, your name is Elizabeth. I know, it's long, and your hasty 8 year old self will want to shorten it to something that can be scribbled in an instant... but you will rue the day (rue, I tell you!) that you choose to go by 'Liz'. It's obnoxious, and too short and it's a bit onomatopoeia-ish. And to be honest, everyone's going to call you Booze, anyway. It's a long story. I'll explain later.
Speaking of days you will 'rue', one blissful 5th grade afternoon, you'll be accosted by a boy named Jevon. He'll be the one throwing water at you. You'll forgive him this, almost immediately- because you'll think him kind of cute. This is all an act- a trick of the light, I say! RUN. Run away from him, and never look back. If you don't cut him out of your life right then and there, he'll torture you for long as you both shall live...
Just to further illustrate how imperative it is to your sanity that you avoid and ignore him, let us take a stroll down memory lane... At age 16, after you see the Texas Chainsaw Massacre with all of your friends, you'll go home, so glad that you're not one of those silly girls who gets scared by silly movies. Cue Jevon, who will be waiting outside your bedroom window, revving a circular saw. He's also the one who dresses as a clown not once, but twice, all for your 'benefit'. You're afraid of clowns, but, by now, you already know this. His shenanigans will only cement your stance. Senior year he'll tell your government teacher that you have a knife in your backpack, which by then will be quite an offense... but you'll be granted clemency due to the fact that his only proof was an AIM account he purported as yours with the moniker 'knifeinmypack', and a hand-drawn picture of a cleaver that he stuffed in your bag. Once you've enrolled at WSU, he'll already have told all his friends (he has, surprisingly, many) that you're a heroin addict (you are not) who's had 9 abortions (of which you've had none)... And one time, he'll push you and you'll trip and go flying into a wall, bounce off a fire extinguisher and land on your ass. He'll laugh at this.
Speaking of which, you're unbalanced. Not in like, a schizo way, but more in the way that you fall down a lot. Realize this, and move on. Don't go rollerblading, snowboarding, skateboarding, or walking down B Street. This will save you a dislocated shoulder, bruised hip, bruised ego, the knees of two different pairs of jeans, a pair of aviator sunglasses, your left ankle and your sanity.
Regardless of your vigilance, you will never use the words 'supper' or 'soda' in normal conversation, and you aren't really ambidextrous. Why must you try to be so strange? The oboe? Really?! Get over yourself, kid. You're going to be weird enough without going out of your way to do so. Also, you pronounce 'crayon' wrong. Seriously. It's not 'cran'- it's 'cray-on'. People will make fun of you for this. And while I'm clearing up some egregious errors in your thought processes and pronunciations, I might as well mention these: islands are not floating pieces of land, hearts aren't shaped like hearts, and the lyrics are, "Don't go chasing waterfalls, please stick to the rivers and the lakes that you used to", not, "Don't go Jason waterfalls, blistex to the rivers and the lakes that you used to"...
Enough with the overalls. After age two, they cease to be precious and turn into pathetic.
Sometime in early grade school (between 1st and 2nd grade, to be sort-of exact), a freckle will appear on your lip. It's not pen, regardless of how many misguided, nosy strangers (and Grandma!) try to tell you to wipe it off your face. Even after you assure them that it's not pen, that it's permanent, they'll still stare at you, an air of doubt in their gaze... Get used to this. It happens once a week.
Lots of girls are impetuous, unreasonable and a bit creepy- and you are one of them even though you consider yourself to be sooooo balanced and normal and cool. You're not. Sorry.
Try to write a book about vampires that's actually good before 2005- because after that they become sparkly, thus making the entire genre worthless. Also, invest in Apple or something. Oh, and Y2K? Total BS. I'll let you know about this 2012 nonsense... or maybe I won't :/
Really, little Elizabeth... how many Beanie Babies does one actually need?
There will be a time in your adolescence that you decide to throw a party at your parent's house. FYI, someone leaves a Smirnoff Ice in the microwave... Your friends are cool. And just so you know... your friend Nick's going to tell your cousin Chris about the party, who's going to tell your aunt Elinor who's going to tell your mom. You don't get into trouble though, so chill out. Have a drink, or eight... you were a real bitch that night.
On that same note... you keep thinking vodka is your friend. IT DOES NOT LIKE YOU.
Relax about the little things, because chances are, they don't really matter anyway. Pay attention in class, and quit scribbling all over your notebooks, you're wasting paper. Be nicer to people because as the years go by you'll feel bad that you weren't.
Unfortunate things will happen. People will disappoint you. And you're going to disappoint yourself, more times than I'd like to admit- but that's kind of what life's about. You try things out, you make mistakes, you (hopefully) learn from them, and you get up and do it all over again. Sooner or later you'll come to the realization that the past is the past, the future may or may not be completely fucked- but life goes on. Just live. Just breathe. Have fun and be sincere and most of all, be present. From what I can tell you'll have good days and bad, but they're two sides of the same coin, you can't have one without the other. And maybe the odds are stacked in your favor, because so far, life's been pretty damn good.
Just do your best, so you can look back with no regrets, proud of what you've accomplished and without all those obnoxious, nagging, "what if" scenarios.
You've got one shot at this.
Be good.
Sincerely,
Booze
Sunday, October 31, 2010
my friend, lawrence
I have a friend named Lawrence, though generally I refer to him as 'Bitch'. I call him this mostly because he is one.
The first time I met Lauri B was at a little place called Cleo's. Actually- I don't think it was called Cleo's then, I'm just one of those old people who refers to everything as they once were... ie: "After I get my groceries at Buttrey's, I'm going to head over to the Bon Marche and pick up a casserole dish..."
My friends frequented Cleo's not because they were gambling fiends, but because of the $2.99 steak and eggs special. I don't trust discount anything, let alone bargain-priced casino meat, so naturally, I never partook. But everyone else did. And by everyone else I mean Jevon, who ate his weight (his college weight, of course, as he's quite petite now) in dime-store ribeye.
I was supposed to meet Jevon somewhere on the vast casino floor, already aware that with him was his friend, 'Lawrence, from WSU, he went to Richland High, he's pretty cool.' I was under the impression that I'd already met all the cool people that existed in Richland, ergo I was a bit skeptical.
They were congregated near the darts, so I came up behind them and just watched. Like a creep.. standing there, not making myself known. I do this a lot. At WSU I'd navigate the main mall, and literally go out of my way to avoid people I knew. If I was in the Bookie, I'd ignore them, and hope they wouldn't recognize me without a drink in my hand. Lawrence saw me lurking in the shadows of the casino that night, but didn't say anything. He later confessed that he figured I was just some freak girl who was standing a bit too close, watching a bit too carefully, and shrugged it off. This happens to Lawrence a lot, I've come to find.
Jevon finally turned, startled by me. "Oh! Scary, Booze. This is Lawrence." We exchanged hellos and they continued their game. I, of course, pulled out my phone and texted a few friends, "Jevon's friend Lawrence? Hot." Okay. I admit, here and now, when I first met Lawrence, I thought he was good looking. We all did. I have since gotten to know him, and his looks no longer dazzle me into incoherence. Instead, I'm now captivated by his sparkling personality... :/
Anyway, while texting the girls, I probably launched into the part of my personality that's overly sarcastic, a little bit mean and maybe/kind of funny--- AKA the person I pretend to be when I'm too nervous or 'dazzled'... If the aforementioned is the only part of me you've ever seen, it's either that I like you, or that you intimidate me into incessant cynicism. (Usually it's the latter... there are only about 20 people who don't make me nervous- Lawrence being one of them. He puts me at ease with his constant fumblings- be they words he doesn't quite understand or curbs he trips over...)
We all hung out over the next few days, eating cheesecake from a tupperware tub, and visiting a place called, "Cheapskates"- where soup was spelled 'supe'. We hung out at Shari's until our parents were rising for work and drank obnoxious amounts of Busch Light at any opportunity (Mike's Hard for the ladies... and Lawrence). Also, one time, we spiked 32 ounce sodas with the cheapest vodka ever, and then went to Kohl's. I still don't know why.
That summer he became one of us, he was always around. It's still weird to me when I realize he has real friends- ones before us, because when we found him it was as if he'd been raised by wolves---
There was the camping trip, where he threatened to jump on the tent, flattening it, if we didn't let him in. You can't lock a fucking tent, he was just too drunk to figure out the zipper. He then screamed, "Someone shit on my shoes. I see it, I know what it is! Someone shit on my shoes!"
That first camping trip. We should have known then.
For the record, no one did anything to his shoes, but that didn't stop him from bitching constantly throughout the rest of the night about the conspiracy against him and his footwear.
Then there was the time Lawrence and I visited Jevon, hard at work, at the Sports Authority. Jevon was wandering around the shoe department, hiding from customers and waiting for his next bathroom break- just another day on the job. As a man wearing a turban walked by, Jevon gave me a quick look. "Hey, Lawrence," he said, gesturing to the man. "Isn't that your dad?"
"I'm fucking Catholic, you asshole," Lawrence replied.
Ah, my friend Lawrence... he has a way with words. From his Xbox handle, 'Mussyjams' to his catchy signature phrases- ("Yeah bitch, I guess" and "nutbags" being two of my favorites), his every utterance delights me. When we were going through security at the airport on our way to the Vegas senior year, his eyes narrowed as I emptied my pockets, dropping my Bonnebell into the personal-items tray. "What the fuck, Booze, are you popping at altitude?" Translation: "Liz, why do you have lip gloss on your person? Are you going to apply it on the plane? Why would you do this, there is no need." He's also fluent in babeonics, something that I find disgusting and fascinating all at the same time.
Lawrence is always on the cutting edge of fashion, and he once told me that he has "eyelashes people lust for."- an undeniable fact. During that first summer, Lawrence decided (was forced?) to get in touch with his feminine side. We (Megan, Ashley, Kaylee, Erica and myself) were gathered around Ashley's kitchen table, when we overheard Lawrence in the kitchen, on the phone. "When are you coming here?" He demanded, sipping out of a princess cup. "I'm stuck here with all the dumbass girls!"
PS-
SEANY.
(Oh. He wanted to be mentioned, too.)
The first time I met Lauri B was at a little place called Cleo's. Actually- I don't think it was called Cleo's then, I'm just one of those old people who refers to everything as they once were... ie: "After I get my groceries at Buttrey's, I'm going to head over to the Bon Marche and pick up a casserole dish..."
My friends frequented Cleo's not because they were gambling fiends, but because of the $2.99 steak and eggs special. I don't trust discount anything, let alone bargain-priced casino meat, so naturally, I never partook. But everyone else did. And by everyone else I mean Jevon, who ate his weight (his college weight, of course, as he's quite petite now) in dime-store ribeye.
I was supposed to meet Jevon somewhere on the vast casino floor, already aware that with him was his friend, 'Lawrence, from WSU, he went to Richland High, he's pretty cool.' I was under the impression that I'd already met all the cool people that existed in Richland, ergo I was a bit skeptical.
They were congregated near the darts, so I came up behind them and just watched. Like a creep.. standing there, not making myself known. I do this a lot. At WSU I'd navigate the main mall, and literally go out of my way to avoid people I knew. If I was in the Bookie, I'd ignore them, and hope they wouldn't recognize me without a drink in my hand. Lawrence saw me lurking in the shadows of the casino that night, but didn't say anything. He later confessed that he figured I was just some freak girl who was standing a bit too close, watching a bit too carefully, and shrugged it off. This happens to Lawrence a lot, I've come to find.
Jevon finally turned, startled by me. "Oh! Scary, Booze. This is Lawrence." We exchanged hellos and they continued their game. I, of course, pulled out my phone and texted a few friends, "Jevon's friend Lawrence? Hot." Okay. I admit, here and now, when I first met Lawrence, I thought he was good looking. We all did. I have since gotten to know him, and his looks no longer dazzle me into incoherence. Instead, I'm now captivated by his sparkling personality... :/
Anyway, while texting the girls, I probably launched into the part of my personality that's overly sarcastic, a little bit mean and maybe/kind of funny--- AKA the person I pretend to be when I'm too nervous or 'dazzled'... If the aforementioned is the only part of me you've ever seen, it's either that I like you, or that you intimidate me into incessant cynicism. (Usually it's the latter... there are only about 20 people who don't make me nervous- Lawrence being one of them. He puts me at ease with his constant fumblings- be they words he doesn't quite understand or curbs he trips over...)
We all hung out over the next few days, eating cheesecake from a tupperware tub, and visiting a place called, "Cheapskates"- where soup was spelled 'supe'. We hung out at Shari's until our parents were rising for work and drank obnoxious amounts of Busch Light at any opportunity (Mike's Hard for the ladies... and Lawrence). Also, one time, we spiked 32 ounce sodas with the cheapest vodka ever, and then went to Kohl's. I still don't know why.
That summer he became one of us, he was always around. It's still weird to me when I realize he has real friends- ones before us, because when we found him it was as if he'd been raised by wolves---
There was the camping trip, where he threatened to jump on the tent, flattening it, if we didn't let him in. You can't lock a fucking tent, he was just too drunk to figure out the zipper. He then screamed, "Someone shit on my shoes. I see it, I know what it is! Someone shit on my shoes!"
That first camping trip. We should have known then.
For the record, no one did anything to his shoes, but that didn't stop him from bitching constantly throughout the rest of the night about the conspiracy against him and his footwear.
Then there was the time Lawrence and I visited Jevon, hard at work, at the Sports Authority. Jevon was wandering around the shoe department, hiding from customers and waiting for his next bathroom break- just another day on the job. As a man wearing a turban walked by, Jevon gave me a quick look. "Hey, Lawrence," he said, gesturing to the man. "Isn't that your dad?"
"I'm fucking Catholic, you asshole," Lawrence replied.
Ah, my friend Lawrence... he has a way with words. From his Xbox handle, 'Mussyjams' to his catchy signature phrases- ("Yeah bitch, I guess" and "nutbags" being two of my favorites), his every utterance delights me. When we were going through security at the airport on our way to the Vegas senior year, his eyes narrowed as I emptied my pockets, dropping my Bonnebell into the personal-items tray. "What the fuck, Booze, are you popping at altitude?" Translation: "Liz, why do you have lip gloss on your person? Are you going to apply it on the plane? Why would you do this, there is no need." He's also fluent in babeonics, something that I find disgusting and fascinating all at the same time.
Lawrence is always on the cutting edge of fashion, and he once told me that he has "eyelashes people lust for."- an undeniable fact. During that first summer, Lawrence decided (was forced?) to get in touch with his feminine side. We (Megan, Ashley, Kaylee, Erica and myself) were gathered around Ashley's kitchen table, when we overheard Lawrence in the kitchen, on the phone. "When are you coming here?" He demanded, sipping out of a princess cup. "I'm stuck here with all the dumbass girls!"
He loves us, he just pretends to be bitter and angry and violent- of this I'm sure.
Also, check out the princess cup clutched in his grenade hand.
Also, check out the princess cup clutched in his grenade hand.
Our influence was all too great, I'm sad to admit, and I can only imagine what his friends thought as they saw pictures of him in a dress all over Facebook. Yes. You read me right. It was a lovely green and white striped frock, with spaghetti straps and a v-neckline. In all honesty it was a bit slutty. But, he looked smashing. What, you never saw the photo? Pity. I guess you could just look here, or here, if you so desire.
Dresses, I think, are just a natural thing for Lawrence, as wearing pants, for him, is entirely bothersome and difficult. Our friend Chester (Lawrence) has a tendency to 'chesterize' (flash his ass 'accidentally') all the God damn time. This photo is proof- as his tan line starts well below where it should. I always thought it was a recent thing, something that happened during college. Lawrence never seemed very gangster, but who was I to judge? Maybe low slung dungarees were some sort of style statement, some sort of 'message' to the man.
It wasn't until winter of 2008 that I got the truth. After a rousing game of beer pong, Lawrence slipped, or something, and ripped his underwear, leaving a gaping hole- or in his world, plenty of room to chesterize. His cousin, Paul (who is far and away one of the nicest guys I've ever met, so I don't hold his relation to Lawrence against him), hearing the phrase for the first time, said this, "Chesterizing? Is that what that's called? He's been doing it every Christmas since age seven!" After all the wondering, it finally dawned on me. He must be prone to buying ill-fitting pants.
Lauri B trips and falls and splits open his chin. He's baffled by the English language, even though he's been immersed in it for 22 years. He swears, he bitches, and he complains about every single drink he's ever ordered. He doesn't understand that when the guy tells him it's a chicken burrito, just chicken in a tortilla, that all he's going to get is chicken in a tortilla. He also doesn't understand that when this happens, it's not appropriate to throw a fit in the middle of a Kirkland restaurant, even if it is his 22nd birthday. He'll also want to bitch, bitch, bitch... all the way home.
If Lawrence had his own reality show, I imagine it would be a Lebanese-American version of the Jersey Shore. Having never seen the Jersey Shore (something Lawrence would undoubtedly find punishable by death, or by the act of forcing me to actually watch Snooki and the gang), I can only speculate as to how closely he resembles DJ Pauly D, but I mean, have you seen the amount of gel the guy uses? Twinsies...
He doesn't like puppies, or music, or fun. He hates things like politeness, and walking without falling. (Don't think I didn't see that misstep on the escalator last weekend, B. It was an escalator! It does the work for you! The hardest part is getting on and off without getting sucked into the mechanism... You were just standing there, and all of a sudden, as if by seizure, you nearly fell- taking us all with you. Unforgivable.)
If you're reading this, and you don't know Lawrence, you might at this moment be saying to yourself, "Thank God I'm not friends with that nutbag. He sounds clumsy and disagreeable and kind of rude." Yeah bitch, I guess.
Truth be told, all jokes aside and bitter commentary silenced, Lawrence is one of my favorite people, ever. I feel lucky to have met him, and fortunate that he hasn't gotten tired of my equally bitchy attitude.
Love you, B. Happy Birthday.
Dresses, I think, are just a natural thing for Lawrence, as wearing pants, for him, is entirely bothersome and difficult. Our friend Chester (Lawrence) has a tendency to 'chesterize' (flash his ass 'accidentally') all the God damn time. This photo is proof- as his tan line starts well below where it should. I always thought it was a recent thing, something that happened during college. Lawrence never seemed very gangster, but who was I to judge? Maybe low slung dungarees were some sort of style statement, some sort of 'message' to the man.
It wasn't until winter of 2008 that I got the truth. After a rousing game of beer pong, Lawrence slipped, or something, and ripped his underwear, leaving a gaping hole- or in his world, plenty of room to chesterize. His cousin, Paul (who is far and away one of the nicest guys I've ever met, so I don't hold his relation to Lawrence against him), hearing the phrase for the first time, said this, "Chesterizing? Is that what that's called? He's been doing it every Christmas since age seven!" After all the wondering, it finally dawned on me. He must be prone to buying ill-fitting pants.
Lauri B trips and falls and splits open his chin. He's baffled by the English language, even though he's been immersed in it for 22 years. He swears, he bitches, and he complains about every single drink he's ever ordered. He doesn't understand that when the guy tells him it's a chicken burrito, just chicken in a tortilla, that all he's going to get is chicken in a tortilla. He also doesn't understand that when this happens, it's not appropriate to throw a fit in the middle of a Kirkland restaurant, even if it is his 22nd birthday. He'll also want to bitch, bitch, bitch... all the way home.
If Lawrence had his own reality show, I imagine it would be a Lebanese-American version of the Jersey Shore. Having never seen the Jersey Shore (something Lawrence would undoubtedly find punishable by death, or by the act of forcing me to actually watch Snooki and the gang), I can only speculate as to how closely he resembles DJ Pauly D, but I mean, have you seen the amount of gel the guy uses? Twinsies...
He doesn't like puppies, or music, or fun. He hates things like politeness, and walking without falling. (Don't think I didn't see that misstep on the escalator last weekend, B. It was an escalator! It does the work for you! The hardest part is getting on and off without getting sucked into the mechanism... You were just standing there, and all of a sudden, as if by seizure, you nearly fell- taking us all with you. Unforgivable.)
If you're reading this, and you don't know Lawrence, you might at this moment be saying to yourself, "Thank God I'm not friends with that nutbag. He sounds clumsy and disagreeable and kind of rude." Yeah bitch, I guess.
Truth be told, all jokes aside and bitter commentary silenced, Lawrence is one of my favorite people, ever. I feel lucky to have met him, and fortunate that he hasn't gotten tired of my equally bitchy attitude.
Love you, B. Happy Birthday.
PS-
SEANY.
(Oh. He wanted to be mentioned, too.)
Monday, October 18, 2010
goodies.
So sorry to disappoint, Jevon, but this isn't that kind of blog entry...
Me. Age one. Ted Kaczynski ain't got nothin' on me, bitch.
I found a cardboard box yesterday in the breezeway of my parents house. I don't really know what a breezeway is, other than a way to connect the main house to the garage... most people use a thing called a 'door' for this, but due to poor planning, or other unfortunate incidences I'm unaware of, we utilize a little room, with four doors... One to the front yard (a collective, wtf, is in order), one to the back patio, one to the garage and one to the kitchen. All this trouble to get from the house to the garage. A garage that's a paint studio, with fans and florescents, no less.
Anyways. I found this box, which at first sight, seemed to be filled with a hodge podge of middle school and high school memorabilia. Books (of the Harry Potter variety), movies (Disney, of course), the Beatles anthology (which is now in my car), a secret notebook, notes written on God-ish stationary and much, much more were scattered about. And I was delighted.
It was a veritable treasure chest of memories. So, naturally, with you I'm going to share. Enjoy.
Well, here I am. I don't know how old I was in this particular photo- but judging by the sheen on my nearly-bald head, I'd say I'm around 9 or 10 months. Found this little gem of a picture taped onto a collage I no doubt made in honor of, well, me. Who else would I make a collage of?
The reason this photo speaks to me, is that it illustrates just how great my parents were- always letting me explore, allowing me to follow my artistic impulses and creative drive no matter where it took me...
What, you see a child eating dirt while her parents watch gleefully from behind a Nikon lens? Pshaw. I see an intrepid explorer, diving head first into what could be... grabbing for herself the very essence of life and then, eating it. Like candy. A really minerally, dirty, infested with SO MANY FUCKING GERMS kind of candy. A candy, like the kind that comes from a skeezy fellow dwelling in a windowless van. The kind that most parents steer their children from, rather than saying, "Here, Elizabeth, eat this dirt, we're out of Gerber at the moment. Now, spit out the roly poly, that's just icky."***
***(Author's note, when I showed my Mom this entry, she said, and I quote, "Oh for God's sake Elizabeth Moss, get over it. It was Badger Canyon dirt. Sacred.")
I played many an instrument in my youth. Violin, oboe... the latter of which forced my mom to encourage me not to practice. "You sound great, Elizabeth, but you're done practicing now. YOU'RE DONE." I probably sounded like a cross between a dying duck and evil.
Why in the sixth grade, when faced with a hoard of flutes, clarinets, trumpets and trombones I chose the oboe, I'll never know. It was between that and the french horn, both of which my music teacher told me I could get a scholarship with, to which I said, "Will they give me a scholarship for just having the ability to play... or will they expect me to be in band or something?"
I also have a piano and a guitar, and while when I bought them I had delusions of grandeur about my actual abilities at playing them, I still like to dabble every now and then. Pretty much, chopsticks is my bitch.
But how could I ever forget my short run in the ORFF Ensemble at Ridge View Elementary?
I think I played the glockenspiel, mostly because of the way it just rolls off the tongue. It's a glock, and a scpiel. What more could one want? We played one song, and one song only. I have no idea what it was called, but it was a three-part harmony, and had I some mallets and Jevon and Megan (who I'm sure still remember it as well), I'd dazzle you with my skills.
Sweet misspelling, too, eh? I've always been a gifted grammarian...
My OM hat. Odyssey of the Mind, which I believe I prefaced in my last blog entry, was a big part of my youth. While other kids were out playing soccer and gaining important skills in teamwork and... running, or something, I was inside, gluing my fingers together with industrial strength adhesive. Awesome.
What little girl doesn't love Barbies? Why is this doll so pristine, still wrapped in her cardboard and plastic? Oh. Wait. This monstrosity of a doll is NOT a Barbie, ergo why it was marked down to $1.89. WTF is a Pom Pom Pal? I think the makers of this doll, not wanting to encroach upon Mattel's turf, figured, "oh, fuck it, let's put a pom pom on her head and throw in a cassette for good measure. It's a doll, and we can put right on the box, 'Be A Cheerleader'!? What's not to love? Girls will fawn all over it. They're dumb and they love pink... Score." Maybe some girls... but not this one.
I'm nothing if not a brand whore.
It's like she's Barbie's peppy Alopecia-stricken cousin. Creepy as hell.
This VHS was the hardest thing to stumble upon. Was I, Elizabeth Christine Moss, ever so lame as to record the Grammys? Also, what's with the apostrophe?
Popping it into the VCR (yes, I have one of those), I was suddenly totally grossed out by the thought that "The Grammy's" might be something one would name a tape that they never intended for public viewing...
Choking back vomit, I breathed a sigh of relief as the screen cleared. It was D3: The Mighty Ducks.
Shit I loved Banksy. The hockey playing one, not the graffiti-ish one. And Benny 'the Jet' Rodriguez, though I'm pretty sure his name was Luis in the Duck world. But mostly I loved Banksy. Ah.....
Speaking of the lost art form of videotape...
The Little Mermaid VHS, a classic. CLASSIC! Especially with a penis on the cover. Fine family fun!
I was always a writer. My first line of prose, thought up when I was walking toward Young Street during my tenor as a crosswalk attendant in the fifth grade, went something like this, "The cold, bitter wind blew through her windbreaker, biting at her skin." I thought to myself, hey, I could be a writer.
And I know, the line was brilliant, no need to shower me with praise.
While this particular notebook was barred from prying eyes, as you can see by the "Touch & Die" inscription on the cover, it held nothing short of nothingness. Seriously. It had a few lists of songs I wanted to download, mostly Britney Spears, Hilary Duff, Simple Plan and host of other music I'm sad to say I liked.
Also in it, was a chart of different emoticons and their meaning. I actually wrote out,
" :) = smiley "
I was ridiculously cool.
Lastly, tucked away in the far recesses of the box, was another box. A Godly box, filled with notes and folders and 'affirmations' from my days with Jesus, AKA most Sundays throughout high school, as I spent the majority of them sitting sleepily at the COJ.
We must have had a tradition at church camps to write out what we liked about one another, as I found many a note that said, "You're so cool," or, "You're so nice." Obviously they didn't know me at all...
But I remember this note in particular. I don't know who it was from, but it gave me a laugh. It still does. "I hear that you are funny." Haha. Ha..... I've heard that, too.
We (Kaylee, Bonnie and I) didn't take church too seriously. Obviously. Jesus, or St. Peter, or whomever, will probably laugh at us when we reach the pearly gates...
In the pews we'd 'Bible Pick', thumbing through the Book and randomly plunking our fingers down to highlight a particularly strange passage. We tried to skip service by hiding in the playhouse in the sanctuary, and sometimes we just left and went to IHOP. But as you can see, in Kaylee's handwriting, we did praise the Lord... "LOL!".
Ah, memories.
(image courtesy of Bonnie's bedazzled 'affirmations'. Seriously, Bonnie? Glitter for Jesus?)
Lastly, tucked away in the far recesses of the box, was another box. A Godly box, filled with notes and folders and 'affirmations' from my days with Jesus, AKA most Sundays throughout high school, as I spent the majority of them sitting sleepily at the COJ.
We must have had a tradition at church camps to write out what we liked about one another, as I found many a note that said, "You're so cool," or, "You're so nice." Obviously they didn't know me at all...
But I remember this note in particular. I don't know who it was from, but it gave me a laugh. It still does. "I hear that you are funny." Haha. Ha..... I've heard that, too.
We (Kaylee, Bonnie and I) didn't take church too seriously. Obviously. Jesus, or St. Peter, or whomever, will probably laugh at us when we reach the pearly gates...
In the pews we'd 'Bible Pick', thumbing through the Book and randomly plunking our fingers down to highlight a particularly strange passage. We tried to skip service by hiding in the playhouse in the sanctuary, and sometimes we just left and went to IHOP. But as you can see, in Kaylee's handwriting, we did praise the Lord... "LOL!".
Ah, memories.
(image courtesy of Bonnie's bedazzled 'affirmations'. Seriously, Bonnie? Glitter for Jesus?)
And for now, I'm going to return to my VHS copy of D3. BANKSY!
okaybyeeee.
Monday, July 5, 2010
my love letter - to hollywood
I was that kid that watched movies over and over, memorizing the lines and reciting them to my reflection. My old house had an entire mirrored wall, a dangerous installation for such a self-obsessed aspiring star... I'd spend hours in front of it, practicing looks of sadness, or fear, or surprise!, or terror, or glee, or... you get the picture.
Years later, while working in the drive thru at Starbucks, I said something witty (or entirely ridiculous) to a customer, and made some unfortunate smirk in his direction. He laughed and said, "You give good face." I still don't know what the hell that means, really, but I like to think he was trying to say that my expressions were fantastically original and thereby, glorious.
Drama club was something I tried briefly in middle school, and while I did actually enjoy it, I was also completely obsessed with what my friends thought--- and they did not think much of people in drama club. They (my friends, of course) were way too cool to be hanging out with me in the first place, so I figured joining my kindred spirits up on the stage would rock me right off the boat, and into a sea of self-loathing, stage make-up and ill-fitting wigs.
Even though I evaded plays through most of my youth, I still love Hollywood and the idea that these people, their voices and faces and even their mannerisms- will live on.
I love movies. I love actors. I love the words they say, and how they say them, the looks on their face and how some of them are so believable that for a second on screen, you're seeing the person they were always meant to be. It's like they could never be anyone else- until you see their next movie. I love how the right chord can convey sadness, or fear, or total elation. I love that weeks or months, or even years of writes and rewrites and shoots and editing goes into every two hour block of cinema I watch.
I also, kind of sort of, think that they (the people in Hollywood), would love me too. I really think I'd get along swimmingly with the Hollywood set. Not the Paris Hiltons, or anyone on a reality show (because they're not real Hollywood... being famous for being a douche bag isn't the kind of notoriety that I hope to achieve...), but the real celebs.
Whenever I buy a Cosmo (the magazine), one of the first things I read is the celebrity quiz, the one they write out longhand. I'd never thought much about Kristen Bell, but after reading her quiz, I couldn't help but like her - and her ALL CAPS penmanship. I think we'd be friends, should I relocate Los Angeles and bump into her (stalk her) on Robertson Boulevard.
I feel this way about a lot of celebrities. Like Sandra Bullock. If I ever actually knew Sandy, (which is what I'd call her, because, you know, I'd be allowed to, because we'd be BFF and all...) she'd love me. I figure I'd be just about the perfect addition to any celebrity's inner circle. I'm insightful, and quirky- in a cute way. I easily break tension with a joke or amusing quip. I would never sell them out to TMZ or the Enquirer, and I'd always have a pen they could borrow, or gum if they were so inclined.
I'd never falter if they needed me to swallow a balloon full of heroin, and I'm unnaturally gifted at coming up with alibis.
I, essentially, would be the best friend they'd ever have. I'd be everything they needed, and more. I think this way about my celebrity crushes as well. Another break-up, Jake Gyllenhaal? I'll ease your pain. I'm the one you've been waiting for. That Reese, yeah, well, she seems like a nice girl... but really. Do you want riches, personality and gorgeousness? Of course not. You need me.
It seems though, that every time I find a new celebrity to fantasize about, he gets hit with those pesky gay rumors. Wentworth Miller? Dining at Nobu with his main squeeze, Ryan. James Franco? Not confirmed... but all the signs point to gay...
Anderson Cooper? Bought a firehouse to renovate with his boyfriend of a year. Well, great, now I'll never be his wife. I get all depressed, thinking, "What the hell, he's gay?! Damnit! There goes my shot at getting out of this God forsaken town..." As if sexual preference is the one thing that's keeping me from dating, loving and living with Anderson Cooper. Never mind that I've never met (and will probably never meet) the man. Forget that he's almost the same age as my mom. Let's not even think about the fact that he is way out of my league, not to mention an actual Vanderbilt.
When I was younger, I had paper dolls that were made in his family's likeness that my grandparents bought when they visited the Biltmore House. There I was, at the ripe age of six, dressing Anderson's family in frilly frocks and dapper suits. At that time he was in his late twenties, probably out saving orphans in Somalia or being unnaturally wonderful, as usual.
Imagine the stories we could have told our kids! How serendipitous our union would have been, me with my paper dolls and him with his Yale degree and actual intelligence...
But alas, he's gay. Of course he won't love me. He can't.
Such is life.
Hollywood, I've learned, is full of heartbreak. That town will build you up to chew you up to tear you down to lift you back up again, all the while betting on how long until your next coke binge. Just look at Lindsay Lohan.
I've known fame, and I've also felt the cruelty of celebrity lost. Once upon a time, when I was in 5th grade, I was in a little thing called 'OM'. Odyssey of the Mind.
I don't really remember the specifics, because it was a looooong time ago, and I kind of have this problem where I don't actually pay attention to my surroundings- but the gist is this: we built a 15 gram balsa-wood structure, it held 700 pounds, we did a little play, and they sent us to Florida.
I try to be modest about it, but, just to let you know, I was the star of the aforementioned play. At least, I think I was. Again, I could be lying-- but I'm pretty sure I had most of the speaking parts. My character's name was "Madam Quinzo", and I was peddling things, namely balsa wood structures, on an HSN-like channel.
While we usually did our little act in front of a panel of judges, once we found out we were going to Florida, we were invited to perform in front of our school, Ridge View Elementary. After we finished and begged everyone for money, I was wandering the halls, props in hand. I don't know why I wasn't in class, though knowing me, it's not so unusual.
"Hi." A first grader with his arms folded across his chest said to me, darting out of his classroom. "Can I have your autograph?"
I smiled hugely, looking around the hall for witnesses. Curses. There were none. "Sure," I said, walking into the wet area to sign a piece of construction paper. "Who should I make this out to?..."
"Huh?" He asked.
"What's your name?" I shook my head. First graders. Total idiots.
"Colin," he answered, wide eyed. I wrote his name, and then signed mine as messy as I could, turning my nine-letter first name into little more than a squiggle. Lovely, I thought, I was born to be a star- this is the perfect signature. I stared at the paper, wondering what else an autograph should consist of? 'Best of luck' I scribbled on the top, handing the paper back to him.
He shoved it in his pocket and walked back to class without another word to me.
Whilst in Florida for OM, I bought myself an autograph book, procuring the signatures of Chip, Dale and Goofy. Mickey and Minnie were rather elusive, as were all the Disney princesses, so on the airplane ride home I filled out the rest of the pages with my own name, over and over again. I figured practice makes perfect, and I didn't want my hand to cramp up once I was bombarded by all the third grade autograph hounds.
My practice was in vain, as Colin was the last person to ever request my autograph.
Fame is fickle. This I know.
I still practice my signature, just in case. Also, I'm a notary, so I'll charge you $10 and sign loan documents, or adoption papers, or, you know, whatever.
Years later, while working in the drive thru at Starbucks, I said something witty (or entirely ridiculous) to a customer, and made some unfortunate smirk in his direction. He laughed and said, "You give good face." I still don't know what the hell that means, really, but I like to think he was trying to say that my expressions were fantastically original and thereby, glorious.
Drama club was something I tried briefly in middle school, and while I did actually enjoy it, I was also completely obsessed with what my friends thought--- and they did not think much of people in drama club. They (my friends, of course) were way too cool to be hanging out with me in the first place, so I figured joining my kindred spirits up on the stage would rock me right off the boat, and into a sea of self-loathing, stage make-up and ill-fitting wigs.
Even though I evaded plays through most of my youth, I still love Hollywood and the idea that these people, their voices and faces and even their mannerisms- will live on.
I love movies. I love actors. I love the words they say, and how they say them, the looks on their face and how some of them are so believable that for a second on screen, you're seeing the person they were always meant to be. It's like they could never be anyone else- until you see their next movie. I love how the right chord can convey sadness, or fear, or total elation. I love that weeks or months, or even years of writes and rewrites and shoots and editing goes into every two hour block of cinema I watch.
I also, kind of sort of, think that they (the people in Hollywood), would love me too. I really think I'd get along swimmingly with the Hollywood set. Not the Paris Hiltons, or anyone on a reality show (because they're not real Hollywood... being famous for being a douche bag isn't the kind of notoriety that I hope to achieve...), but the real celebs.
Whenever I buy a Cosmo (the magazine), one of the first things I read is the celebrity quiz, the one they write out longhand. I'd never thought much about Kristen Bell, but after reading her quiz, I couldn't help but like her - and her ALL CAPS penmanship. I think we'd be friends, should I relocate Los Angeles and bump into her (stalk her) on Robertson Boulevard.
I feel this way about a lot of celebrities. Like Sandra Bullock. If I ever actually knew Sandy, (which is what I'd call her, because, you know, I'd be allowed to, because we'd be BFF and all...) she'd love me. I figure I'd be just about the perfect addition to any celebrity's inner circle. I'm insightful, and quirky- in a cute way. I easily break tension with a joke or amusing quip. I would never sell them out to TMZ or the Enquirer, and I'd always have a pen they could borrow, or gum if they were so inclined.
I'd never falter if they needed me to swallow a balloon full of heroin, and I'm unnaturally gifted at coming up with alibis.
I, essentially, would be the best friend they'd ever have. I'd be everything they needed, and more. I think this way about my celebrity crushes as well. Another break-up, Jake Gyllenhaal? I'll ease your pain. I'm the one you've been waiting for. That Reese, yeah, well, she seems like a nice girl... but really. Do you want riches, personality and gorgeousness? Of course not. You need me.
It seems though, that every time I find a new celebrity to fantasize about, he gets hit with those pesky gay rumors. Wentworth Miller? Dining at Nobu with his main squeeze, Ryan. James Franco? Not confirmed... but all the signs point to gay...
Anderson Cooper? Bought a firehouse to renovate with his boyfriend of a year. Well, great, now I'll never be his wife. I get all depressed, thinking, "What the hell, he's gay?! Damnit! There goes my shot at getting out of this God forsaken town..." As if sexual preference is the one thing that's keeping me from dating, loving and living with Anderson Cooper. Never mind that I've never met (and will probably never meet) the man. Forget that he's almost the same age as my mom. Let's not even think about the fact that he is way out of my league, not to mention an actual Vanderbilt.
When I was younger, I had paper dolls that were made in his family's likeness that my grandparents bought when they visited the Biltmore House. There I was, at the ripe age of six, dressing Anderson's family in frilly frocks and dapper suits. At that time he was in his late twenties, probably out saving orphans in Somalia or being unnaturally wonderful, as usual.
Imagine the stories we could have told our kids! How serendipitous our union would have been, me with my paper dolls and him with his Yale degree and actual intelligence...
But alas, he's gay. Of course he won't love me. He can't.
Such is life.
Hollywood, I've learned, is full of heartbreak. That town will build you up to chew you up to tear you down to lift you back up again, all the while betting on how long until your next coke binge. Just look at Lindsay Lohan.
I've known fame, and I've also felt the cruelty of celebrity lost. Once upon a time, when I was in 5th grade, I was in a little thing called 'OM'. Odyssey of the Mind.
I don't really remember the specifics, because it was a looooong time ago, and I kind of have this problem where I don't actually pay attention to my surroundings- but the gist is this: we built a 15 gram balsa-wood structure, it held 700 pounds, we did a little play, and they sent us to Florida.
I try to be modest about it, but, just to let you know, I was the star of the aforementioned play. At least, I think I was. Again, I could be lying-- but I'm pretty sure I had most of the speaking parts. My character's name was "Madam Quinzo", and I was peddling things, namely balsa wood structures, on an HSN-like channel.
While we usually did our little act in front of a panel of judges, once we found out we were going to Florida, we were invited to perform in front of our school, Ridge View Elementary. After we finished and begged everyone for money, I was wandering the halls, props in hand. I don't know why I wasn't in class, though knowing me, it's not so unusual.
"Hi." A first grader with his arms folded across his chest said to me, darting out of his classroom. "Can I have your autograph?"
I smiled hugely, looking around the hall for witnesses. Curses. There were none. "Sure," I said, walking into the wet area to sign a piece of construction paper. "Who should I make this out to?..."
"Huh?" He asked.
"What's your name?" I shook my head. First graders. Total idiots.
"Colin," he answered, wide eyed. I wrote his name, and then signed mine as messy as I could, turning my nine-letter first name into little more than a squiggle. Lovely, I thought, I was born to be a star- this is the perfect signature. I stared at the paper, wondering what else an autograph should consist of? 'Best of luck' I scribbled on the top, handing the paper back to him.
He shoved it in his pocket and walked back to class without another word to me.
Whilst in Florida for OM, I bought myself an autograph book, procuring the signatures of Chip, Dale and Goofy. Mickey and Minnie were rather elusive, as were all the Disney princesses, so on the airplane ride home I filled out the rest of the pages with my own name, over and over again. I figured practice makes perfect, and I didn't want my hand to cramp up once I was bombarded by all the third grade autograph hounds.
My practice was in vain, as Colin was the last person to ever request my autograph.
Fame is fickle. This I know.
I still practice my signature, just in case. Also, I'm a notary, so I'll charge you $10 and sign loan documents, or adoption papers, or, you know, whatever.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
bang it!
I think I'm bitter. You've probably considered this as well, as most of my blog entries consist of constant (yet totally delightful) bitching about everything from drunkenness to Baconnaise. And being white. Ugh.
To know me in real life--- which I'm sure all of you do, or else why would you be reading this?--- is to hopefully know that I'm not the belittling shrew my words make me out to be. Well, I am... a little bit, I guess. In order to write these things, one would assume I must also think them, at least on some level...
But in real real life, I'm optimistic to a practically delusional state. I'm just a glass half full kind of gal. I assume the best in people, regardless of past precedent, even if they've disappointed me time and time again. I'm pretty sure that somewhere along the line, I'm going to win the lottery. I believe in karma and fate, and I like to think that there's a reason for our existence.
I am sarcastic, I'll admit that, and maybe I seem like a cynic... but I always hold out hope. I don't know why. Things go wrong, bad things happen- but there's a lot of good out there, too. There's beauty, and greatness, and plastic bags dancing in the wind.
Case in point- I love Disney movies... See? Happy. Sure, they usually kill off some lady character in the beginning, but hey- such is life. You roll with the punches. You might lose your wife after she's hatched all your kids, and your one remaining kid might be a bit of a cripple, but then you meet Dori, and visit 42 Wallaby Way, and life is swell again- as it should be.
I like happy. That being said, I seem to, especially in print, venture to the dark side more often than not. I've thought long and hard about why this is, and keeping in mind the whiteness I mentioned last time, I can think of only one other disappointment in life that my disdainful attitude stems from.
It's because I could never have proper bangs.
You read it right. This dark side of me, the angry, bitter one... she was fueled by lifeless, insipid hair.
You see, I have two cowlicks, these little swirly bits at the front of my hairline, that keep me from having a trendy coif.
Bangs that lie flat against the forehead? Never gonna happen. My cowlicks spin my hair so that a nice layer of fringe above my eyes will never be achieved. Ridiculously awesome puffy bangs circa Brittany Jones in the nineties? Nope. I would've killed for those bangs in sixth grade, but it just wasn't in the stars. I've tried blow dryers, curling irons, and so much hairspray that I was a fire hazard- to no avail.
Bangs and I will never live in harmony. It's something that I've come to accept, I think. I still make an attempt every once in a while, and sometimes they border on decent, but mostly, I look like a bang-loving, cowlick-having fool.
I've found myself discouraging my able haired friends from wearing bangs. I tell them, "They're just not in style." or, "I just like it so much better when you do the side-swept thing, it's way cuter. I've heard people say it about you. No bangs. Don't do the bangs. They're icky." I couldn't actually care less about my friend's hairstyles, I like them for their money, not their looks. But the jealousy bubbles every time I see someone shake the hair out of their eye-line.
Bitches.
Banglessness is just one more thing I have to come to terms with in order to be all the way happy... and haven't. The list is actually getting quite long...
-I can't have bangs.
-I'm too white.
-I can't ride a bike with no-hands.
-Tomatoes make me gag, regardless of how good they look, or how much I think I could like them.
-I'm pretty sure I'm going to die at age 27.
-I'm a bit clumsy, what with the falling out of beds and tripping over air.
-In addition to lacking bangs, I keep finding gray hairs. I just turned 23 last month. I hit puberty like, yesterday, and I'm already on the decline.
-I'm easily distracted, like today, when I saw said gray hair in the mirror and almost ran off the road (nearly taking a Toyota Tundra with me).
-Oh, also, I am not a competent driver.
-When I write, I make a lot of gestures and movements, and facial expressions. As in, I look like I'm fighting with the air- and it's winning.
-Anderson Cooper is gay, and will never love me. More on that later.
-I blush easily. When I'm embarrassed, or hot, or angry, or sad, or laughing, or... anything. It's probably some super sketchy disorder. It's probably what I'm going to die from, at age 27.
-I like my shows more than most of my friends... So anti-social...
-I think I have a bit of a lisp.
I'm sure there are more, but I'm growing weary.
I guess I'll part with one final thing I must come to terms with. I'm hopelessly in love with a craft that might never pay off. But I guess I duped you into reading this- so that's a start :)
To know me in real life--- which I'm sure all of you do, or else why would you be reading this?--- is to hopefully know that I'm not the belittling shrew my words make me out to be. Well, I am... a little bit, I guess. In order to write these things, one would assume I must also think them, at least on some level...
But in real real life, I'm optimistic to a practically delusional state. I'm just a glass half full kind of gal. I assume the best in people, regardless of past precedent, even if they've disappointed me time and time again. I'm pretty sure that somewhere along the line, I'm going to win the lottery. I believe in karma and fate, and I like to think that there's a reason for our existence.
I am sarcastic, I'll admit that, and maybe I seem like a cynic... but I always hold out hope. I don't know why. Things go wrong, bad things happen- but there's a lot of good out there, too. There's beauty, and greatness, and plastic bags dancing in the wind.
Case in point- I love Disney movies... See? Happy. Sure, they usually kill off some lady character in the beginning, but hey- such is life. You roll with the punches. You might lose your wife after she's hatched all your kids, and your one remaining kid might be a bit of a cripple, but then you meet Dori, and visit 42 Wallaby Way, and life is swell again- as it should be.
I like happy. That being said, I seem to, especially in print, venture to the dark side more often than not. I've thought long and hard about why this is, and keeping in mind the whiteness I mentioned last time, I can think of only one other disappointment in life that my disdainful attitude stems from.
It's because I could never have proper bangs.
You read it right. This dark side of me, the angry, bitter one... she was fueled by lifeless, insipid hair.
You see, I have two cowlicks, these little swirly bits at the front of my hairline, that keep me from having a trendy coif.
Bangs that lie flat against the forehead? Never gonna happen. My cowlicks spin my hair so that a nice layer of fringe above my eyes will never be achieved. Ridiculously awesome puffy bangs circa Brittany Jones in the nineties? Nope. I would've killed for those bangs in sixth grade, but it just wasn't in the stars. I've tried blow dryers, curling irons, and so much hairspray that I was a fire hazard- to no avail.
Bangs and I will never live in harmony. It's something that I've come to accept, I think. I still make an attempt every once in a while, and sometimes they border on decent, but mostly, I look like a bang-loving, cowlick-having fool.
I've found myself discouraging my able haired friends from wearing bangs. I tell them, "They're just not in style." or, "I just like it so much better when you do the side-swept thing, it's way cuter. I've heard people say it about you. No bangs. Don't do the bangs. They're icky." I couldn't actually care less about my friend's hairstyles, I like them for their money, not their looks. But the jealousy bubbles every time I see someone shake the hair out of their eye-line.
Bitches.
Banglessness is just one more thing I have to come to terms with in order to be all the way happy... and haven't. The list is actually getting quite long...
-I can't have bangs.
-I'm too white.
-I can't ride a bike with no-hands.
-Tomatoes make me gag, regardless of how good they look, or how much I think I could like them.
-I'm pretty sure I'm going to die at age 27.
-I'm a bit clumsy, what with the falling out of beds and tripping over air.
-In addition to lacking bangs, I keep finding gray hairs. I just turned 23 last month. I hit puberty like, yesterday, and I'm already on the decline.
-I'm easily distracted, like today, when I saw said gray hair in the mirror and almost ran off the road (nearly taking a Toyota Tundra with me).
-Oh, also, I am not a competent driver.
-When I write, I make a lot of gestures and movements, and facial expressions. As in, I look like I'm fighting with the air- and it's winning.
-Anderson Cooper is gay, and will never love me. More on that later.
-I blush easily. When I'm embarrassed, or hot, or angry, or sad, or laughing, or... anything. It's probably some super sketchy disorder. It's probably what I'm going to die from, at age 27.
-I like my shows more than most of my friends... So anti-social...
-I think I have a bit of a lisp.
I'm sure there are more, but I'm growing weary.
I guess I'll part with one final thing I must come to terms with. I'm hopelessly in love with a craft that might never pay off. But I guess I duped you into reading this- so that's a start :)
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